Friday, November 21, 2008

Girls are impossible to understand

Ok...I've been truly bored for the past few days. Haha...I know some people would kill to be in my position right now, but too bad, you guys still wouldn't have holidays like me even if you had killed me. :P anyway, as I was saying, I am bored. And in my boredom, I have been bugging some of my old friends for outings and been talking on the phone almost non-stop. And in one of those nonsensical phone calls, a friend tells me his opinion about "paying". My first reaction to his opinion was "Which century are you from?" and I was a tad offended by his male-chauvinism. But then, after the phone call, it made me think again. I mean, many girls would be charmed by the idea that a guy would be so chivalrous.

So what do you think of this modern girl dilemma: If a guy insists on paying for everything, do you think that he is being chauvinistic or chivalrous? My first thought would be that the guy is being chauvinistic. On the other hand, if a guy lets me pay for my own on a date anyway, he is being a cheapskate. I mean, friendly date, never mind la: you pay one time, I pay one time OR go on Dutch. Fair ma...But this should not happen on a date date.

Sigh...I can't understand girls. Hahaha...I mean, I don't know what I am thinking about most of the time anyway! But I am very sure of my position that the boyfriend should not pay for all of the girl's expenses. I mean, come on you guys, some girls are truly out on the hunt for bill-payers. Don't be so dumb, ok? When you are paying the girl's rent, phone bill, shopping and what-nots, you are definitely not being chivalrous. That is being STUPID. I mean, the occasional presents and shopping bill is ok, but if you two are at the cashier and she is waiting for you to fork out the money, something is wrong, man!

I used to have girl friends who do that. Flirt with guys and make them buy expensive cosmetics and perfume for them. The girls who do that, I don't respect. But to imagine that there are guys stupid enough to buy them those expensive gifts, I am speechless. And I remember scolding one of my secondary school friend who used to go shopping with a girl he was after so that he could pay for her with his few months' allowance. CRAZY males!

Any comments girls and guys on this issue? Please, do leave your comments. Am so freaking bored!


didie said...

I always for 'go-on dutch'.With anyone..easier..i owe them nothing and they owe me nothing too...

For me the issue is not the male being chauvinistic or chivalrous. The girls on the other hand, wouldn't they feel a bit malu,having someone to pay things fr them... i just feel we as humans should know how to 'ukur baju di badan sdri'.

I hav a fren of this type too n seriuosly I don't understand this behaviour until now.

Maybe i hav the same opinion with you, guys who pay all the bills for their girl are stupid..or mayb they hav so much money that they donno know how to spend them...hahahaha!!!

melwin kaur said...

leave comments on my blog...'m bored too

Viloshena said...

well if u ask i too wud agree wit didie and u...go dutch la... then onli its fair ma..

and guys out there who pay all the bills of the gals..pls wake up to reality la she to has her own money..don be stupid and pay for everyting la..cant u see she is jus using u..don be STUPID la.think and see has she ever paid ur rite ..then y r u paying hers?

Doiii said...

School holiday? haha. Enjoy!

cinderella_parker said...

well, i think some guys just enjoy forking out all their money for their gfs.

being a girl, if a guy does dat all the time, ill get pretty embarrassed too. but if he insists, then y not.
"rezeki jgn di tolak, bala jgn di cari"

anyway, im not in the position of sharing dating experience with guys. i havent date them for years.haha